How to Choose the Right Tarot Deck for Yourself
When I first began reading tarot, I didn’t realise just how personal the connection to a deck could be. My very first deck was the classic Rider-Waite, and for years, it was the only one I used. It was like an old friend—reliable and always ready to provide clear, practical answers. But as my practice deepened, I started feeling drawn to different kinds of decks.
Now, my collection reflects the variety of readings I do. For spiritual guidance and self-reflection, I often turn to my oracle cards, which have soft, dreamy artwork that inspires my intuition. When I’m working on shadow aspects, I reach for my darker, moodier tarot deck—it feels like it understands the depth of what I’m exploring. Each deck brings something unique to the table, and that’s what makes choosing one such an exciting and personal journey.
Whether you’re just beginning or looking to expand your collection, here’s a step-by-step guide to help you choose the deck that’s right for you.
1. Understand Your Purpose
Before choosing a deck, think about why you want one. For me, each deck I’ve purchased has been guided by a specific intention. For instance, when I wanted to focus on learning tarot deeply, I chose the Rider-Waite-Smith because it’s the foundation for so many resources. Later, when I wanted a deck that felt more spiritual and intuitive, I picked an oracle deck that spoke to my inner world.
Ask yourself:
- Are you looking for personal guidance, to read for others, or to explore a specific area like relationships, career, or self-discovery?
- Do you want a structured deck (like tarot) or something more fluid and interpretive (like oracle cards)?
Your purpose will help guide your choice.
2. Connect with the Imagery
One of the most important things I’ve learned is that the imagery of a deck has to resonate with you. When I browse for new decks, I pay close attention to my emotional reaction to the artwork. Some decks make me feel energised and inspired the moment I see them, while others—no matter how popular—just don’t feel like “me.”
Ask yourself:
- Do the colours and illustrations spark something in you?
- Can you imagine yourself interpreting the scenes on the cards?
For me, my forest-themed deck was an instant “yes.” It brings a sense of calm and connection to nature every time I use it. Trust your gut—it’s almost always right.
3. Consider the Theme
Tarot decks often have themes, and finding one that matches your interests or spiritual path can make the experience more meaningful. For example, I love nature, so I gravitate towards decks with earthy, botanical themes. My niece, who also reads tarot, adores mythology and chose a Greek-inspired deck that feels deeply personal to her.
Some popular themes to explore include:
- Mythology
- Astrology
- Animals or nature
- Pop culture
- Minimalist or abstract designs
A themed deck can feel like a reflection of your personality, making it easier to bond with.
4. Check the Card Quality
One thing I’ve learned the hard way is how important the physical quality of the cards is. I once bought a beautiful deck online, but when it arrived, the cards were so flimsy they bent after just a few shuffles. It made me reluctant to use them.
Here are a few things to consider:
- Card stock: Is it sturdy enough to hold up to regular use?
- Size: Will it fit comfortably in your hands? (Some decks can be surprisingly large!)
- Finish: Do you prefer the smoothness of glossy cards or the softer feel of matte ones?
These little details can make all the difference in how much you enjoy working with your deck.
5. Read Reviews and Watch Flip-Throughs
Whenever I’m considering a new deck, I always read reviews and watch flip-through videos on YouTube. Seeing the entire deck laid out helps me decide if it feels aligned with what I’m looking for.
For example, I once fell in love with the artwork on a deck’s box, but after watching a flip-through, I realised the rest of the cards didn’t resonate with me. Taking that extra step saved me from disappointment.
6. Trust Your Intuition
Tarot is all about intuition, and choosing a deck is no different. One of my favourite decks wasn’t even on my radar—I found it in a tiny shop and instantly felt drawn to it. I didn’t overthink it; I just trusted my gut, and it turned out to be one of the most accurate and insightful decks I’ve ever used.
If a deck feels right, it probably is. Sometimes, the best choices are the ones that defy logic.
7. Don’t Stress Over Perfection
Your first deck doesn’t have to be “the one” forever. When I started, I thought I had to find the perfect deck straight away. But over time, I realised that every deck I’ve owned has taught me something unique. Some were stepping stones, while others became lifelong companions.
It’s okay to experiment and let your collection grow with you. Each deck has its own magic to offer.
Final Thoughts
Choosing a tarot deck is a deeply personal and magical process. Whether you’re drawn to a timeless Rider-Waite, an indie deck with bold, modern artwork, or something completely unexpected, the key is to choose a deck that feels like an extension of your energy.
I hope this guide helps you find a deck that speaks to your heart. Remember, the magic is within you—the deck is simply the tool that helps you unlock it.
Let me know how your journey goes, and if you find a deck you love, I’d be delighted to hear about it!